Picking raspberries along our paths stirred up memories of 1960. Per my Uncle Jim’s instructions, 2024 Papa was turning/twisting branches to reveal hidden berries beneath the foliage. I think the last time we picked raspberries in the North Woods was 1959. My uncle was a school principal in our hometown. He was single. A veteran of World War Two his American Legion post (Tanner-Paul, a great fish fry.) built some cabins near Lake Tomahawk. Starting around 1947 my brothers and later I spent most of our summers with Uncle Jim in cottages in and around Lake Tomahawk. It was a wonderful life for us. We now speculate that getting us out of town for polio season may have been a motive but the treks continued after the vaccine. At least until it was time to work summer jobs. So, from about age eight to sixteen I was on Uncle Jim*s berry picking brigade. As he was chief cook and bottle washer we knew it was in our best interest to pitch in gathering berries or landing fish.
Thus the year 1960 comes to mind. It was a year of significant change for me. No berry picking in the north woods. It was just my youngest brother we all waved to when Uncle Jim pulled his two door Ford out of our driveway. I was ready to stay home that summer. A driver’s license was opening up my world. The school year had ended with a strange mix of elation for the positive prospects of a senior year but with a pained heart when a first date/friend relocated. I think of three of you as you are at a similar age of transition. It’s not always easy, especially when concerns/interactions can be so intense. Plus, for me, I was starting in the world of work.
I began part time employment at my grandfather’s funeral home. I had done some chores there as did my older brothers. However, grandpa had died and there was a need. That summer there was more to do and learn than simple chores. Not that I didn’t learn and do my share of vacuuming. Three chapels to keep clean. Wash the hearse of course. Lugging caskets up and down stairs from storage to display room to use. Going on “calls” was a part of the duties, (ie picking up corpse) Learning the protocol at wakes. Guiding pallbearers during a service. Knowing the differences between a Catholic and Protestant ritual. (The first was easy with altar boy experience.) To this day I am amazed that a 16/17 year old was in charge when the adults went home for dinner during a wake. I had a suit and tie and could stand with hands clasped while directing guests with the best of them. I even learned how to slip $5.00 to a priest/ minister as a gratuity with a handshake.
In my senior year I worked three nights each week from 6PM to 9 PM. Even if there was no wake the funeral home stayed open until 9 each night. Then I’d lockup. My other duty was to answer any phone calls. There were no cell phones or even extension lines. I was surprised how many folks would stop by to chit chat. They’d talk about the old days with my family members. Some asked about a recent funeral hoping to gain insight into the “actual cause of death”. There were the crank calls of course. Asking for Mr. Stiff etc. And, there was walk in business not to be missed. Again, I marvel that as a high school senior I was at Grandpa’s desk taking notes from a thirty something widow who lost her husband to a tragic accidental death. It was what needed to be done.
I experienced a lot in that first job. For one, I had no desire for employment as an undertaker. The next seven summers of work doing garbage collection, light construction and one exhausting stint of heavier construction taught me on the other hand that office work of some sort would suit me best. Now three of you are possibly considering summer/part time employment. Good for you. When I was young a coveted job was as a lifeguard. Never lucky in that regard. My older brother once had seasonal work at a brewery bottling plant. Dream job. You will find a niche. First jobs offer experience and an initiation into the work world. Papa will miss extended times at our cabins picking raspberries, listening to primal screams of a neighbor and simply having fun. However, it is your time to venture out and explore life’s paths. Enjoy. Always have your fun.