Authors are advised to write about familiar topics. Don’t read too much into Papa’s life based on the title of this post. Yet, to be fair, it is not outside the realm of possibilities that I have more than a passing acquaintance with booze. I did grow up in the Badger state. ( I will also concede that the jury may be out on my being grownup. ) Although I cannot claim to be an expert on avoiding the pitfalls of alcohol, here are my thoughts for your consideration.
First, your health, wealth and emotional well being will be better if you don’t drink. I’m not talking about never testing it out with peers or prohibiting booze to ever pass your lips. You may or may not give alcohol a taste. If thereafter, you choose not to drink your physical body won’t be subject to the long term invasion of high blood pressure, organ deterioration and slowed brain function. The biggest dangers arise from excessive drinking. Wealth is at risk if one can’t work to a person’s best ability. Or, worse, miss work due to hangovers/sickness. There’s a line from a Woody Allen movie to the effect that showing up for work is 80% of success. Many people can plow through years of hangovers and make it to work. (Functional alcoholic.) That can trick the mind into falsely believing all is well with employment. One can never truly know how much negative impact excessive alcohol has on pay increase/promotions. The same holds true for family life. Maintaining better health without alcohol is a given. However, light or moderate drinking does not mean a person will die sooner or have dire health problems at an early age. Relaxation can”t be all bad for health. As far as the brain is concerned, drinking quickly makes one feel quite smart. You’ll be surprised how intelligent you sound to yourself. Yet something can be lost in translation when brilliant ideas during inebriation are verbalized. None or minimal alcohol use is best.
Drinking alcohol is not a bad choice in and of itself. What is a bad choice is to continue to drink if you can’t handle it. Alcohol (And/or drugs), driving an automobile and using a gun represent three big dangers in your life. It is imperative that you act responsibly. Unfortunately, when it comes to “handling alcohol” you’ll enter an area where things get slippery. And, everything gets more complicated if one has what was described as the “curse” by my first internist. In his opinion the curse was high tolerance for alcohol. I will try to explain.
A starting point if you wish to test alcohol is to do so at an appropriate age. In my youth our state had a reasonable law that permitted consumption of beer, not liquor, at age 18. Yet, kids would even jump the 18 year old gun. We had a few guys who’d get some beer and drink it under the football stands or some such place. I assume they got a kick out of sneaking or thinking that they were more grownup. It’s not bad to act your age in high school. Which for me meant malted milks, burgers or pizza after a dance with other kids. No age acceleration is needed to have fun in high school. If you want a to spice things up a bit, try the mine fields of dating. ( Where it is every man for himself.)
Whenever, wherever or however you decide to take a first drink I suggest you make it beer. The age 18 for beer concept was swept away during the Vietnam War era protests. (The infancy for today’s do-gooder social justice warriors.)The argument was that if a soldier is old enough to die for his country he should be old enough to vote and drink alcohol. The vote aspect of the concept survived. Old/wise enough to cast consequential votes but not ready to gulp a beer seems dubious. However, sticking with my point about beer, when all of our potential soldiers were old enough to die and drink at age 18 it had a negative impact. Papa’s experience had been with college age kids consuming beer. When the next generation could drink hard liquor at age 18 they did so as if chugging beer. There was no Katie to bar the door. So, after a wakeup call based on many disasters the drinking age for ALL alcohol went to age 21. Not an unreasonable age for hard liquor.
Assume you are going to drink three beers. On average it may take the better part of an hour to consume that amount. Four shots can be downed in a matter of minutes. College kids failed at an earlier age to hold their liquor. A big whammy hit 18 year olds square in the kisser. It turn out they could get killed in war or alternately obliteriated at age 18. Papa’s experience before the age 18 epiphany was of kids either having a beer or two and getting giddy or settling in to drink lots more than a few. The latter is the curse. The 2 beer kids had quick fun/silliness and went to bed. Others settled in for a longer haul. Plus, with less sleep (and not such good sleep at that) those with high tolerance of alcohol could do more functional damage and bodily harm over time. However, they were considered to be holding their alcohol by virtue of standing upright longer. Whatever you do pace yourself. Test yourself with alcohol. “Holding one’s liquor” if defined as consuming huge quantities is not a positive.
Also, remember that the two dangers of driving and handling of a weapon both have a huge multiplier if alcohol use is involved. Zero is the policy then.